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Friday, July 25, 2008 1:24 PM

Man, seems like a lot of people are emo-ing these days. I know life is tough out there, be it school cliques, studies, relationships or even internal psychological problems. This is not going out to exactly anyone, because i don't know your exact problems, therefore can't troubleshoot.


Firstly, i hope this blog will become a very transparent platform for Pebbles to voice our opinions, feelings and really anything that you want to say. Whatever your problems are, Pebbles will help each other out. I know that sometimes we can't meet up due to our personal matters, but we'll always give each other moral support :) For me, at the start of the year, life wasn't very nice for me in school. It's not like i was emo or something, just that when i look at other people, and i compare myself to them, i realise my poly life is quite no life. Throughout my whole year 1 i have never went shopping or doing fun stuff with my clique. In school, we looked like we can joke about anything, but in reality, after school, we go our own ways. An qi, we are somewhat in the same boat regarding friends. Everything has got to do with school. Even when the time we went clubbing, is also cos the school organise then we go tgt. I was really upset about this. I want shopping trips, sleepovers, bbqs, even just having lunch tgt. Sometimes my clique is just not interested in this kind of things, so i had to live with it. I know there was friendship in my clique. I'm happy around them, but i still feel that something is missing.

I didn't really voice out to you guys, cos i thought i should solve my own problems and stop dwelling in the negative thoughts. And i also remembered i still got the 3 of you. We can still do things that some ppl find childish or a waste of time. Indirectly, you guys pulled me through the tough times without even knowing it.


Why emo when you can be happy and positive? I'm not saying that you should ignore your problems and act as if nothing has happened. You should solve your own problems, occasionally asking for some help. Firstly, ask yourself is there really a problem? What are you worried about actually? I have been through times when i got really emo, then i asked myself, what am i actually emo about? Things are clear cut and im letting emotions affect what i do, so i felt should stop feeling sorry for myself and overtake my feelings.

Being sensitive is one thing you know. It's right to react to something, for example, a change in environment, or someone hurts you with her words, and you react by feeling hurt. This is nature what. But letting your feelings ruin your whole day, and even affect your actions for example taking out your frustration on a friend cos you're feeling emo that day is not really right. Ask yourself do you deserve to feel moody the whole day because of one event? Taking control of your feelings is the key :)

I was just saying how i got through some of my problems throughout the year. It's relieving to know that i still have to Pebbles. You guys are my moral support whenever i felt alone. You guys should also remember this. We love each other yeah!!












ok, sorry the last sentence was retarded hahah.
Just for your info, like what i've told hong siew, i'm pretty busy from this period till mid August, Busy with presentations and CAs. Sadly, when my stressful period is over, the JC A levels period is more or less approaching and it will be tough for us to meet up. I want to plan our next dinner tgt leh, simple one will do. I'm trying to make 2 & 3rd August 08 available for study session or simple dinner with you guys. Can y'all let me know if its possible to meet?

Can't wait man... i miss Justi mom's popcorn chicken and M&M's brownies already!! haha



Signing off, Pebbles (:


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